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RITE OF PASSAGE

Recommended for ages 16+

Give a Vision for Adulthood

 

 

What is a Rite of Passage? 

A Rite of Passage is a special event signifying a transition from one stage to another. This is an ideal time to affirm and help your child anticipate and prepare to accept God’s plan for the future. Challenge your teen to leave behind the world of childhood and invite them into the ranks of emerging adulthood.

 

 

 

Raising Your Child in a God- Honoring Home

How to do a Rite of Passage 

It is less important how you plan your child’s Rite of Passage than that you plan it. Some families host a simple dinner with family and close friends. Others do something more elaborate such as a road-trip adventure with various stops. Decide and plan what works best for your teen and your situation.

STEP ONE: CREATE A PLAN
Create a plan to make this a meaningful experience. Read one of the recommended resources for more ideas or utilize the Rite of Passage Planning Guide provided with this kit. A small investment of thought and effort will mean a great deal to your son or daughter.

STEP TWO: INVITE PEOPLE
Invite people who have had an impact in your teen’s life and/or whom they respect. Give each person a specific topic on which he or she will speak or write a letter. Some topics may include work, marriage, integrity, faith, purity, family, etc.

STEP THREE: MAKE IT EASY
Make it easy for others to participate by providing them with recommended wording for their talk or letter in order to help them avoid becoming nervous or attending ill-prepared.

Guide and Sample Letters

 

 

PRACTICAL IDEAS

GIVING A BLESSING
It is very important that parents use this milestone to give a blessing, usually in the form of a letter affirming the teen’s potential and expressing gratitude for his or her life. For more on the power and process of giving a blessing, review the Blessing kit or Blessing step on myfaithpath.com.

GIVE A VISION FOR THE FUTURE
Take time to provide direction for the future. Cast vision and direct your child in seeking the Lord as they enter a season of significant decisions that will impact the future.

GIVE A GIFT
Consider purchasing or making something to give your teen during this time. It doesn’t need to be extravagant. It is more important that it serve as a tangible keepsake of the event that your child can hold on to for years to come. Ideas include a piece of jewelry, a book of letters/blessings, a sword for guys or a crown for girls.

SET THE STAGE
The Rite of Passage event serves as an opportunity to set a new tone for the changing relationship with your child. Your role is changing from primarily teacher to mostly coach as he or she accepts the new freedoms and responsibilities that accompany young adulthood. Let your child know that you will be there to help him or her work through the challenges and navigate the landmines as they take ownership for choices and a future walk with God. Plan to create intentional one-on-one times to connect and keep the lines of communication open over the coming

 

HELPFUL TOOLS

Take advantage of these resources as you begin the habit of prayer with your child.

Spiritual Milestones          Rite of Passage          King Me

Raising a Modern Day Knight          The Blessing          The Intentional Father

 

 

YOUR CHILD'S NEXT STEP

As children get older, they become ready for additional steps along Milestones. Set a calendar reminder for your child’s next birthday to return to this page to select their next step. Thank you for becoming intentional about guiding your child’s faith journey!